Hello everyone! Today, December 31st,is our dear Jeremy's birthday. The first birthday I knew Jeremy was back in 2007 and he was in Iraq. I remember him telling me about the traditional beatings he got but how all in all "it was as good as it could be". The next year he was home safe and sound. We spent the day at the zoo and I took him out to dinner at Duke's on the Pier in Huntington Beach. Then I brought him to his surprise "1940's Poker Themed" party. He couldn't stop talking about it for the longest time. His friends and family were there to celebrate with him and I even surprised him with inviting his good friend Greg Robinson,who he rarely gets to see. To him,that was the icing on the cake. 2009 was his first birthday as a married man and we spent the day together and loved every minute of it. This year he is deployed to Afghanistan. I mailed him a card and even had a birthday cake shipped out to him. But unfortunately the mail was stopped for a while and just started back up last week,so I have a feeling he didn't get them on time. As a wife,having my husband gone for his birthday is extremely hard. Not just because I want to spend it with him,but because I want to make every birthday as special as I can to make my husband happy. I know he's tough and won't complain about it. I know he'll make the best of it he can. And I know he'll appreciate the cake and card when it does arrive. It just gives me such pride and respect for my husband knowing that he is spending his birthday overseas so he can protect the ones he loves. I obviously hope he has a good birthday. I hope he gets to stay warm and maybe even have a real meal. I hope his fellow Marines don't beat him too much and I hope he thinks about how much we all love him back home.
Keep him in your thoughts and prayers tonight as you're celebrating the New Year with your family/friends. Because of him,and all of our other service men and women,you can celebrate the way you want to.
Happy Birthday Jeremy Ray. We can't wait to have you back celebrating your 25th birthday next year in 2011.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Friday, December 17, 2010
You Know when you're a Marine Wife when...
My amazing sister-in-law (who is not a Marine wife) posted this on my facebook this morning. I thought it was pretty cute that she found it and it's all oh so very true. I love being a Marine wife and I love having all of these things apply to me.
You Know You're A Marine Wife When...
1. You can figure out how to buy groceries for 5 on a budget for 2.
2. You can read your husband's LES better than him.
3. The dispersing clerk knows you by first name.
4. Your children were all born in different hospitals.
5. Your child's first words are commissary, PX, and 7 Day Store.
6. Your children call every Marine "Daddy".
7. Instead of arguing, you ask you spouse when is his next deployment.
8. You can pack a seabag with all his belongings better than he does.
9. You can decorate anywhere with anything ... and for cheap!
10. You know that there is a way to be a 1 car family and still keep
your sanity.
11. Your Marine invites the new kid in the shop over for a home cooked
meal with 1 hour's notice
12. You actually impress that new kid in the shop with what you whipped
up!
13. You can tell which squadron has night flight just by the flight
pattern over your house.
14. You know to start packing when he says, " Honey, guess what?"
15. You know the exact amount of postage for the weekly care package
without weighing it.
16. You know to believe he is home when he calls you to tell you where
to pick him up.
17. When you married your Marine, your civilian family asked you for a
translation dictionary!
18. You only use pencil in your address book for friends.
19. You sit alone at night wondering how is day is goin in Japan.
20. You heave a sigh for all he is missing.
21. You wipe a tear for the rose he gives you with the note that says,
"For all you do."
22. You stand tall when you hear the Hymn.
23. You cry only once he's back home.
24. At your highschool reunion, you proudly boast you'd never trade
places with anyone.
25. You know that "Semper Fi" has a special meaning for you and your
spouse.
You Know You're A Marine Wife When...
1. You can figure out how to buy groceries for 5 on a budget for 2.
2. You can read your husband's LES better than him.
3. The dispersing clerk knows you by first name.
4. Your children were all born in different hospitals.
5. Your child's first words are commissary, PX, and 7 Day Store.
6. Your children call every Marine "Daddy".
7. Instead of arguing, you ask you spouse when is his next deployment.
8. You can pack a seabag with all his belongings better than he does.
9. You can decorate anywhere with anything ... and for cheap!
10. You know that there is a way to be a 1 car family and still keep
your sanity.
11. Your Marine invites the new kid in the shop over for a home cooked
meal with 1 hour's notice
12. You actually impress that new kid in the shop with what you whipped
up!
13. You can tell which squadron has night flight just by the flight
pattern over your house.
14. You know to start packing when he says, " Honey, guess what?"
15. You know the exact amount of postage for the weekly care package
without weighing it.
16. You know to believe he is home when he calls you to tell you where
to pick him up.
17. When you married your Marine, your civilian family asked you for a
translation dictionary!
18. You only use pencil in your address book for friends.
19. You sit alone at night wondering how is day is goin in Japan.
20. You heave a sigh for all he is missing.
21. You wipe a tear for the rose he gives you with the note that says,
"For all you do."
22. You stand tall when you hear the Hymn.
23. You cry only once he's back home.
24. At your highschool reunion, you proudly boast you'd never trade
places with anyone.
25. You know that "Semper Fi" has a special meaning for you and your
spouse.
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
A few pictures from Jeremy!
They're not much but at least y'all can see he's doing well and still has a smile on his face! The first one has a story behind it,which you can ask either him or I,but its pretty stinkin hilarious.
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Update from our Marine!
It's been a while since I've updated and that's only because well,there's not much to post about! I made the trip home to NC safely,along with one of our cats and our precious puppy. Jeremy is safe and sound in Afghanistan. He has pretty good communications (internet,email and SOME phone time) So if you guys would like to personally send him an email or something of that sort his email is: fmjswitch@hotmail.com
Just remember,make it as long as possible,considering he may not be able to communicate for a while so a "hey,whats up?" will just not do! :)
When we do get the chance to talk he's always telling me that he is "bored,tired,cold and missing home. But other then that pretty well" In my opinion,this is the best news I've heard. Knowing hes safe and not seeing much combat. Selfish I know but hey,what did you expect from his wife? He's honestly hating being away from home right now so please,some words of encouragement his way would be appreciated. He's asked for prayers of peace. He's been having trouble sleeping at night from missing me,worrying about me,etc which is the sweetest thing ever but horrible when he has a job to do. I ask for prayers of comfort and strength. It's starting to get harder and harder as the days go by and I'm leaning on God's helping hand to push me through this. I have felt all of your prayers and love even from far away so thank you very much! Just keep Jeremy in your prayers and thoughts,he feels the stress and pressure more then we do. He can't wait to come home and reunite with all of us and get back to his normal life. But until then he knows he has a job to do and he's trying to stay focused,as am I.
Also,like I said before I DO have his shipping address and he's already received one of my packages so the mail is arriving pretty quickly,which means if you would like to send him a package or even just a letter (which he would enjoy) email me at marinegirl412@gmail.com for his address.
I will be updating soon with more news from Jeremy and myself. Thanks for following!
Just remember,make it as long as possible,considering he may not be able to communicate for a while so a "hey,whats up?" will just not do! :)
When we do get the chance to talk he's always telling me that he is "bored,tired,cold and missing home. But other then that pretty well" In my opinion,this is the best news I've heard. Knowing hes safe and not seeing much combat. Selfish I know but hey,what did you expect from his wife? He's honestly hating being away from home right now so please,some words of encouragement his way would be appreciated. He's asked for prayers of peace. He's been having trouble sleeping at night from missing me,worrying about me,etc which is the sweetest thing ever but horrible when he has a job to do. I ask for prayers of comfort and strength. It's starting to get harder and harder as the days go by and I'm leaning on God's helping hand to push me through this. I have felt all of your prayers and love even from far away so thank you very much! Just keep Jeremy in your prayers and thoughts,he feels the stress and pressure more then we do. He can't wait to come home and reunite with all of us and get back to his normal life. But until then he knows he has a job to do and he's trying to stay focused,as am I.
Also,like I said before I DO have his shipping address and he's already received one of my packages so the mail is arriving pretty quickly,which means if you would like to send him a package or even just a letter (which he would enjoy) email me at marinegirl412@gmail.com for his address.
I will be updating soon with more news from Jeremy and myself. Thanks for following!
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Shipping Address is in!
Jeremy has finally received his address while over in Afghanistan. If you would like it please email me at: marinegirl412@gmail.com
Before sending letters or care packages to him please think about what you're sending. No alcohol. No pressurized things such as shaving cream or lotion,since it can burst.
Before sending letters or care packages to him please think about what you're sending. No alcohol. No pressurized things such as shaving cream or lotion,since it can burst.
Monday, November 8, 2010
November named Military Family Month
I would like to share this with all of you. I love being a part of a military family,and I especially love being a
Marine wife. My husband is my hero and I will gladly do this tough job to support him in his even harder duty overseas.
It's great to see military families such as mine being helped and appreciated.
November Named Military Family Month
November 03, 2010
American Forces Press Service
WASHINGTON -- President Obama signed a proclamation designating November as Military Family Month.
Here is the text of the president's proclamation:
We owe each day of security and freedom that we enjoy to the members of our armed forces and their families. Behind our brave servicemen and women, there are family members and loved ones who share in their sacrifice and provide unending support.
During Military Family Month, we celebrate the exceptional contributions of our military families, and we reaffirm our commitments to these selfless individuals who exemplify the highest principles of our nation.
Across America, military families inspire us all with their courage, strength, and deep devotion to our country. They endure the challenges of multiple deployments and moves; spend holidays and life milestones apart; juggle everyday tasks while a spouse, parent, son, or daughter is in harm's way; and honor the service of their loved ones and the memory of those lost.
Just as we hold a sacred trust to the extraordinary Americans willing to lay down their lives to protect us all, we also have a national commitment to support and engage our military families. They are proud to serve our country; yet, they face unique challenges because of that service.
My administration has taken important steps to help them shoulder their sacrifice, and we are working to ensure they have the resources to care for themselves and the tools to reach their dreams. We are working to improve family resilience, enhance the educational experience of military children, and ensure military spouses have employment and advancement opportunities, despite the relocations and deployment cycles of military life. Our historic investment to build a 21st-century Department of Veterans Affairs is helping to provide our veterans with the benefits and care they have earned.
We are also standing with our servicemembers and their families as they transition back into civilian life, providing counseling as well as job training and placement. And, through the Post-9/11 GI Bill, our veterans and their families can pursue the dream of higher education.
However, government can only do so much. While only a fraction of Americans are in military families, all of us share in the responsibility of caring for our military families and veterans, and all sectors of our society are better off when we reach out and work together to support these patriots.
By offering job opportunities and workplace flexibility, businesses and companies can benefit from the unparalleled dedication and skills of a service member or military spouse.
Through coordination with local community groups, individuals and organizations can ensure our military families have the help they need and deserve when a loved one is deployed. Even the smallest actions by neighbors and friends send a large message of profound gratitude to the families who risk everything to see us safe and free.
As America asks ever more of military families, they have a right to expect more of us -- it is our national challenge and moral obligation to uphold that promise. If we hold ourselves to the same high standard of excellence our military families live by every day, we will realize the vision of an America that supports and engages these heroes now and for decades to come.
Now, therefore, I, Barack Obama, president of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim November 2010 as Military Family Month. I call on all Americans to honor military families through private actions and public service for the tremendous contributions they make in support of our service members and our nation.
In witness whereof, I have hereunto set my hand this twenty-ninth day of October, in the year of our Lord two thousand ten, and of the independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-fifth.
Barack Obama
Marine wife. My husband is my hero and I will gladly do this tough job to support him in his even harder duty overseas.
It's great to see military families such as mine being helped and appreciated.
November Named Military Family Month
November 03, 2010
American Forces Press Service
WASHINGTON -- President Obama signed a proclamation designating November as Military Family Month.
Here is the text of the president's proclamation:
We owe each day of security and freedom that we enjoy to the members of our armed forces and their families. Behind our brave servicemen and women, there are family members and loved ones who share in their sacrifice and provide unending support.
During Military Family Month, we celebrate the exceptional contributions of our military families, and we reaffirm our commitments to these selfless individuals who exemplify the highest principles of our nation.
Across America, military families inspire us all with their courage, strength, and deep devotion to our country. They endure the challenges of multiple deployments and moves; spend holidays and life milestones apart; juggle everyday tasks while a spouse, parent, son, or daughter is in harm's way; and honor the service of their loved ones and the memory of those lost.
Just as we hold a sacred trust to the extraordinary Americans willing to lay down their lives to protect us all, we also have a national commitment to support and engage our military families. They are proud to serve our country; yet, they face unique challenges because of that service.
My administration has taken important steps to help them shoulder their sacrifice, and we are working to ensure they have the resources to care for themselves and the tools to reach their dreams. We are working to improve family resilience, enhance the educational experience of military children, and ensure military spouses have employment and advancement opportunities, despite the relocations and deployment cycles of military life. Our historic investment to build a 21st-century Department of Veterans Affairs is helping to provide our veterans with the benefits and care they have earned.
We are also standing with our servicemembers and their families as they transition back into civilian life, providing counseling as well as job training and placement. And, through the Post-9/11 GI Bill, our veterans and their families can pursue the dream of higher education.
However, government can only do so much. While only a fraction of Americans are in military families, all of us share in the responsibility of caring for our military families and veterans, and all sectors of our society are better off when we reach out and work together to support these patriots.
By offering job opportunities and workplace flexibility, businesses and companies can benefit from the unparalleled dedication and skills of a service member or military spouse.
Through coordination with local community groups, individuals and organizations can ensure our military families have the help they need and deserve when a loved one is deployed. Even the smallest actions by neighbors and friends send a large message of profound gratitude to the families who risk everything to see us safe and free.
As America asks ever more of military families, they have a right to expect more of us -- it is our national challenge and moral obligation to uphold that promise. If we hold ourselves to the same high standard of excellence our military families live by every day, we will realize the vision of an America that supports and engages these heroes now and for decades to come.
Now, therefore, I, Barack Obama, president of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim November 2010 as Military Family Month. I call on all Americans to honor military families through private actions and public service for the tremendous contributions they make in support of our service members and our nation.
In witness whereof, I have hereunto set my hand this twenty-ninth day of October, in the year of our Lord two thousand ten, and of the independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-fifth.
Barack Obama
Monday, November 1, 2010
Its finally here...
Jeremy has officially left for Afghanistan. I stood there and watched him get on that bus. It was the toughest moment of our lives. Jeremy wants everyone to know he loves each of you and is thinking of you daily. Please pray for safety and peace of mind. Will update soon.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Update on Jeremy's party!
Hey guys! Thanks for checking up on Jeremy,he appreciates all your support and love.
With that said let me remind you that we are planning a going away party for Jeremy. We've finally set a date,location and time for the party. I do have invitations but for some of you I know it's also a good thing to have a reminder online. Below will be the date & time for the party,if you're interested in coming,which all of you are very very welcome to come,let me know and I will email you the location.
Date: Friday October 15th
Time: 6pm
To make Jeremy feel more at home,we've asked guests to consider bringing an item to donate to his very first care package.
- Baby Wipes
- Beef Jerky/Slim Jims
- Sunflower Seeds
- Powder Drink Mix (Gatorade,etc.)
- Bug Spray
- Ziploc Bags
- Pens
- Notepads
- Toothpaste
- Batteries (AA,AAA)
- Playing Cards
- Chapstick (Carmex is his favorite)
- Q-Tips
- Deodorant (Old Spice High Endurance)
- Kleenex
- Granola Bars
- Goldfish
- Pretzels
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
A little bit of Encouragement
This post won't be very long,just long enough to show the most adorable photo Jeremy and I have ever seen. My sister-in-law Molly posted this photo on her facebook for Jeremy. My nephew Brayden is 6 months old and the sweetest baby in the world. Jeremy can't wait to meet him! 
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Activation Day!
As you all know,a few weeks ago I headed home to NC while Jeremy headed to train in Wyoming for 2 weeks. A little update about his AT (annual training). From his words "Wyoming was very gorgeous but very boring" They had cows just waltzing up to their camp like friends,winds coming from a different direction every day and mosquito bites the size of quarters. All in all though he said it wasn't too terrible. The weeks flew by faster then we expected and he feels more confident in his job,meaning the training actually helped! Something extremely cool that happened though happened in a small town in Nebraska. The town was so small,and apparently nothing ever happened,that when the Marines landed, before taking buses to Wyoming, there was a crowd of people with signs supporting our troops. The people were so excited to see them in their town that they even published their story in the local newspaper. The Marines were escorted by a group of motorcycle riders who are also war veterans. The town was even gracious enough to throw the Marines training in Wyoming a Thank You BBQ before they left. Jeremy loves knowing that there are still people out there supportive,gracious and proud enough to stand behind our Marines and the work that they do. If you want to see the newspaper they were published in,and even read the articles about their training just click here!
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Dinner at Lucille's Smokehouse BBQ
Jeremy's co-workers from Starbucks put on a fabulous dinner for Jeremy a few weeks ago. We all met at Lucille's BBQ in Long Beach and had a blast for a few hours. Since Jeremy's last work day at Starbucks was July 4th (ironic right) we thought it would be a great idea to get the crew together one last time before he leaves for Camp Pendleton and we were right,it was great! Jeremy had such a wonderful time and he's going to miss all his co-workers at Starbucks who double as another family to him. He's so blessed to have such great friends who support him.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Jeremy's Activation
As most of you already know, our wonderful brother,son,friend and husband is deploying to Afghanistan in a few months. We got word of his exact activation date this past week. August 2nd he'll be put onto active duty and start his pre-deployment training in Camp Pendleton. He'll be coming home on the weekends Friday-Sunday afternoon. He'll spend 3-4 months in Pendleton before he hops on over to Afghanistan for 7 months.
Unfortunately, Jeremy will be busy with a 2 week training in Wyoming (July 9th-23rd) before he goes to Pendleton. If you would like to see him before he goes to Wyoming please text or call one of us for our schedules. He'd love to see all of you,he appreciates your friendship and support :)
I,his wife,will be maintaining this blog for Jeremy since I have much better and guaranteed access to the internet. I'll do my best to post all of his letters and news from Afghanistan for you all :)
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